One month back at work and I am sorry I have been neglecting you all. Sometimes as a working mum some times something has to give and I am afraid it was this blog. But I am back, I have settled back into working, the kids have settled and I have finally organised childcare.
Can an "Allergy Mum" return to work safely? Yes! you can
It is not easy; it is not free from stress, worry and anxiety but it can be done. I felt sick with nerves because I have always been there. I knew exactly what he ate, drank and touched. I was in full control, the only person who could administers his drugs, when to administer his drugs and when not too. I was handing full control over to my lovely efficient intelligent aupair BUT and its a big BUT she was leaving at the end of the week. She knew Thomas, knew his allergies, the speed of an reaction and what to do!
So first day at work and I returned to an organised house and happy, excited children. And bang out of no where he reacts and his symptoms escalated quickly. With in minutes Thomas was barely recognisable. I used the emergency action plan step by step.
As a coping mechanism i convinced my self that he would be fine! I stared to worry about how this girl could watch three children and deal with Thomas promptly. I would have to re organise child care or was it worth returning to work?
In hindsight you to step back and reassess the situation, try to avoid making emotional decisions. I know this sounds very clinical. But time is a great healer. I looked at all options
- Sending Thomas out of the home to a childminder to be cared for on his own by a lady who had allergies. (But i didn't want to separate him from his sister as they love each other company. Also my work shifts don't allow this as I am a nurse)
- Hire another aupair so have two aupairs (sanity alone wont allow this and after our french aupair it surprising I am allowing another enter the house)
Is this the right decision? For us it is the correct decision for now ! Along the way we will have to reassess and maybe change it around.
But the basics have helped
- Emergency Action Plan
- This blog the aupairs use to learn about allergies
- Pre-cooked and frozen food for Thomas
- Thomas shelf in the fridge and cupboard
- Strictly no food should be given to Thomas unless it has been trialed and tested by me.
- Strict hand washing and preventing cross contamination
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